Friday, 2 November 2012

Chapter 8 ( dah abes foundation)

Selamat pagi... harini tetiba rajin nak update blog.. merepek je pon kadang-kadang apa yang aku tulis nie.. haha.. tak pe.. aq rase x de orang pon yang berminat nak bace so kalau aku nak update melalut lalut pon nobody care.. hehe

Syukur alhamdulillah.. semalam hari last exam dan maka jika..hehe berakhirlah program foundation TeSL kitorang budak-budak Kirkby setelah seminggu mengadap buku berhempas pulas study.. (tak banayk pon study sebenarnya*****) masing2 keluar dewan dewan peperiksaan dengan muke bahagia (tu bagi yang dah tak kena repeat MUET).. tapi aku pon rase jugak bahagia sikit walaupon jawab exam merapu je time paper last tu, ape aq melalut jawab soalan koko tu pon aq x tau.. hehehe lantak lah.. dah abes pon kan..

Tapi sedih pon rase jugak sebab last day dengan member2 wordsworth yang sume gempak2.. tahun depan harap2 kitorang punyer friendship still strong.. banayk sangat memori pahit manis kat Wordsworth sepanjang 3 sem jadi classmate diorang.. happy sangat2 dapat kawan ngan korang sume.. dapat kenal ngan sume yang lain2 watak.. (aku pon).. even aku x banayk bergaul ngan diorang, x banyak cakap sebab memang jenis aq macam tu kot.. next sem dah tak boleh macam tuu hajar.. kena banyak bergaul.. kena banyak cakap ngan orang.. baru berkembang sikit minda tu..huhuhu.. harap2 la.. dapat improve banyak untuk sem depan(DeGree kot).. so same2 kiter doakan yee ^^

Sebelum bercuti panjang nie..(2 bulan je..tak lame).. malam semalam hari last untuk sem nie join usrah.. best sangat malam tu.. banayk sangat topik yang kitorang bincang.. hehehe yang paling hot sekali ialah topik pasal kahwin muda or kahwin time blaja2 nie.. HOT ke?? malam nie jugak, Yaya pon join skali usrah ngan kitorang, so ahli usrah kitorang bertambah menjadi angka 10.. Usrah tu stad pukul 9 lebih samapi 12 stengah.. x sedar pon masa berlalu kejap je,, macam tak puas plak bincang pasal sume2 tu.. member paling aktif ialah yaya dengan naney.. ade je benda yg dia nak cakap( tapi baek ape, daripada aq nie yg senyap je).. huhu aq x pandai nak susun ayat nak cakap sebenarnya.. pdahal sume dah ade kat kepala nie ha.. hmm.. what to do.. laen kali aq kena kuatkan aq punyer semangat,, kena cakap jugakkkkk.. (tension sbnrnya macam nie).. 

nak share kat sini jela.. semalam kak Yan cakap mengenai masa.. Kak Yan cakap masa tu ibarat kehidupan.. So, ape2 yang kita isi ngan masa kita tu merupakan kehidupan kita.. berfaedah atau tak...itulah kehidupan kiter.. itu pasal mase, then Kak Yan ade tunjuk video yang dibuat oleh program usrah2 dari luar negara(Korea, Jepun, London).. Rupe2nye diorang pon same macam kiter.. care diorang usrah pon lebih kurang same.. share2 problem, bace tafsir n other2 yang related..

Lepas tengok video2 yang Kak yan tunjuk tu, aq tertarik dengan satu hadis nie..

بَلِّغُوا عَنِّى وَلَوْ آيَةً

Terjemahan: "Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda: “Sampaikan dari ku walaupun sepotong ayat.

Dalam video tu ade cakap yang kita nie membawa name tag diri kita as an ambassador of islam..
tak kiralah kiter nie sebagai seorang doktor, pelajar, suri rumah dll.. kiter kena letakkan diri kita dalam satu situasi nie di mana kiter perlu meyampaikan walau sepotong ayat***.  So so soo.. kiter kena berusaha ntuk menyampaikan apa2 yang bermanfaat sebab ganjaran yang Allah SWT akan bagi sangat besar. Ade sepotong hadis riwayat Bukhari : 'Demi Allah, sekiranya seorang lelaki memperoleh hidayah(drpd Allah SWT) kerana usaha kamu, itu lebih baik untukmu drpd nilai unta merah(sesuatu yang sangat berharga)..


So, sangat tidak rugi jika kiter nie just menyampaikan sepotong ayat... contoh zaman skrg nie,kalau kat fb tu kan.. boleh sangat2.. update lah something yg boleh bg mnfaat kat org yg mmbacenye.. hehe.. biar lah org laen nak cakap kiter nie ape pon kan.. kiter just menyampaikan ape yg patot n kadang2 bnda yang kiter sampaikan tu juga sangat bergna ntuk diri kiter jugak..

tibe2 jadi serius plak.. ;o 


Hope cuti nie dapatlah isi masa lapang ngn bnda2 yang bermanfaat... cukupkan solat fardhu, kena khatam quran dlm mase 2 bulan, baca quran at least 2 muka satu hari, solat sunat dhuha.. insya'Allah.. aq pon harap sangat2 dapat buat bnda nie sume time cuti nie.. harap sangat***



Have a happy holidayyyyy!!









Sunday, 14 October 2012

Say Alhamdulillah thank u Allah..

Alhamdulillah.. tu je yang mampu aq ucap.. terlalu banyak perkara yang berlaku n alhamdulillah aq dapat harungi tu semua dengan baik.. terima kasih Ya Allah.. masalah dengan kawan kawan, masalah dengan diri sendiri masalah hati.. semuanya masalah... sekarang nie aq rase tenang sikit..

Masalah nie sume buat aq jadi lebih matang.. ehh matang ke? haha.. boleh la.. ape yang aq rase skarang aq kena fikir positif and do my very best.. kena belajar kawal emosi.. tak bleh moody2 selalu.. senyum senyum senyum..n banyakkan bercakap.. dah lah esok luse dah muet.. banyak benda yang nak difikirkan..
aq harap sem 3 nie berakhir dengan sesuatu yg lebih baek..

Wednesday, 20 June 2012

Happiness habits


  Express gratitude. – When you appreciate what you have, what you have appreciates in value.  Kinda cool right?  So basically, being grateful for the goodness that is already evident in your life will bring you a deeper sense of happiness.  And that’s without having to go out and buy anything.  It makes sense.  We’re gonna have a hard time ever being happy if we aren’t thankful for what we already have.
 
  Cultivate optimism. – Winners have the ability to manufacture their own optimism.  No matter what the situation, the successful diva is the chick who will always find a way to put an optimistic spin on it. She knows failure only as an opportunity to grow and learn a new lesson from life.  People who think optimistically see the world as a place packed with endless opportunities, especially in trying times.
 
  Avoid over-thinking and social comparison. – Comparing yourself to someone else can be poisonous.  If we’re somehow ‘better’ than the person that we’re comparing ourselves to, it gives us an unhealthy sense of superiority.  Our ego inflates – KABOOM – our inner Kanye West comes out!  If we’re ‘worse’ than the person that we’re comparing ourselves to, we usually discredit the hard work that we’ve done and dismiss all the progress that we’ve made.  What I’ve found is that the majority of the time this type of social comparison doesn’t stem from a healthy place.  If you feel called to compare yourself to something, compare yourself to an earlier version of yourself.
 
  Practice acts of kindness. – Performing an act of kindness releases serotonin in your brain. (Serotonin is a substance that has TREMENDOUS health benefits, including making us feel more blissful.)  Selflessly helping someone is a super powerful way to feel good inside.  What’s even cooler about this kindness kick is that not only will you feel better, but so will people watching the act of kindness. How extraordinary is that?  Bystanders will be blessed with a release of serotonin just by watching what’s going on.  A side note is that the job of most anti-depressants is to release more serotonin.
 
 Nurture social relationships. – The happiest people on the planet are the ones who have deep, meaningful relationships. Did you know studies show that people’s mortality rates are DOUBLED when they’re lonely?  WHOA!  There’s a warm fuzzy feeling that comes from having an active circle of good friends who you can share your experiences with.  We feel connected and a part of something more meaningful than our lonesome existence.
 
  Develop strategies for coping. – How you respond to the ‘craptastic’ moments is what shapes your character.  Sometimes crap happens – it’s inevitable.  Forrest Gump knows the deal.  It can be hard to come up with creative solutions in the moment when manure is making its way up toward the fan.  It helps to have healthy strategies for coping pre-rehearsed, on-call, and in your arsenal at your disposal.
 
  Learn to forgive. – Harboring feelings of hatred is horrible for your well-being.  You see, your mind doesn’t know the difference between past and present emotion. When you ‘hate’ someone, and you’re continuously thinking about it, those negative emotions are eating away at your immune system.  You put yourself in a state of suckerism (technical term) and it stays with you throughout your day.
 
 Increase flow experiences. – Flow is a state in which it feels like time stands still.  It’s when you’re so focused on what you’re doing that you become one with the task. Action and awareness are merged. You’re not hungry, sleepy, or emotional.  You’re just completely engaged in the activity that you’re doing. Nothing is distracting you or competing for your focus.
 
 Savor life’s joys. – Deep happiness cannot exist without slowing down to enjoy the joy.  It’s easy in a world of wild stimuli and omnipresent movement to forget to embrace life’s enjoyable experiences.  When we neglect to appreciate, we rob the moment of its magic.  It’s the simple things in life that can be the most rewarding if we remember to fully experience them.
 
 Commit to your goals. – Being wholeheartedly dedicated to doing something comes fully-equipped with an ineffable force.
Magical things start happening when we commit ourselves to doing whatever it takes to get somewhere. When you’re fully committed to doing something, you have no choice but to do that thing.  Counter-intuitively, having no option – where you can’t change your mind – subconsciously makes humans happier because they know part of their purpose.
 
 Practice spirituality. – When we practice spirituality or religion, we recognize that life is bigger than us.  We surrender the silly idea that we are the mightiest thing ever. It enables us to connect to the source of all creation and embrace a connectedness with everything that exists.  Some of the most accomplished people I know feel that they’re here doing work they’re “called to do.”
 
 Take care of your body. – Taking care of your body is crucial to being the happiest person you can be.  If you don’t have your physical energy in good shape, then your mental energy (your focus), your emotional energy (your feelings), and your spiritual energy (your purpose) will all be negatively affected. Did you know that studies conducted on people who were clinically depressed showed that consistent exercise raises happiness levels just as much as Zoloft?  Not only that, but here’s the double whammy… Six months later, the people who participated in exercise were less likely to relapse because they had a higher sense of self-accomplishment and self-worth.



A Change

                       

hai hai hai everyone.. i'm quite in a good mood to write..hewheww
just step in for few days in Semester 3 and too many things happened.
Everything changed.
I don't know whether it is good or bad but I hope that it would be better for me
 to continue my life here..
hmm..
first day in college had made a very awesome day to Kirkby students. Its regarding the food package.
For almost 2 sem it had been discussed and only now there's a solution. and now... no more food package. i don't know if i'm happy with that..muehehehe

there gone that one thing... and last few days i had some misunderstanding with
 my friend and i bet that was my fault. I admit that i was wrong. Sometimes
we didn't realize our own mistakes  even we did it almost everyday.
 mm.. i need to do something with that and it needs to change. I had learn something
from that. At first I think that everyone made mistakes and as a friend one should just accept that.
 But, i think now its better to change ourselves if its the best for everyone. i'll try my very best to be a good friend for them.

last night was my second time i joined my house "usrah" and i hope that
 my effort to make myself a better person will come to a positive one. I felt so happy. before this i thought that i'm not ready to join my room mate. but last night i feel like joining them.
Its quite a good sharing between the members.. I hope that it'll remain the same and continuous.


God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.
~Reinhold Niebuhr~


Saturday, 21 April 2012

istighfar : seeking Forgiveness from Allah



"Truly, Allah loves those who repent, and He loves those who cleanse themselves."
[Al-Baqarah 2:222].

"O Allah! Make me among those who, when they commit an act of virtue, feel good, and when they commit a mistake, they seek forgiveness."
[Ibn Majah]

Tauba (repentance) and istighfar (seeking forgiveness from Allah) are among
the most meritorious acts of virtue for the believers.

Tauba means feeling remorse for our actions or omissions. Istighfar means expressing that remorse in words and begging Allah for forgiveness.

Friday, 20 April 2012

My Bio

My name is Siti Nor Hajar..
Jux call me Hajar.. xde name2 manje ye.. hehe
sye hanye manusia biase..
banyak cacat celanya...

and i'm doing diz just for fun n fill in the blank my free time..
mueheee

if u don't mind ..